Manwhore's Phone Game

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An area of my game that is particularly strong is my ability to talk to girls on the phone. If a girl picks up after giving me her number, I know that in 9 out of 10 cases, I will F-close that girl. It is therefore a great skill to have. If you can get your skills on the phone sorted, it will pay dividends time and time again.

I run natural game and I therefore cannot give you the conversation. (see XXXXXX). I can however give you the principles that I have developed that have helped me to get literally hundreds of women from the end of a phone line, into my bed.

Some basic info:

The main goal of my phone game is to talk to them like you have known them for years. “Hey Carly… how’s it going?”… “What’s going on in your world today???”

I always look to build up time on the phone with that person… I am looking to become a significant part of their life. When you start to game a girl on the phone, there will come a point where she always picks up your call… Where she always calls you back and gets excited when she sees you calling. This is like a tipping point and this is the point that we all must aim. Tipping points vary depending on each girl and the quality of your phone game, but it is important to have this goal in mind.

Some specific techniques / tips (in no particular order):

• I rarely say hello… especially after a few calls with that person… I normally go straight into the conversation. “What are you doing?” This is exciting and it’s fun and it gets the convo going with a good energy. I find that stopping and introducing yourself is a little needy.

• NEVER BE NEEDY… it kills attraction fast. “Why haven’t you returned my call?” “Are you ignoring me?” These are things you should never say… If she hasn’t returned your call, don’t let it bother you. You need to make this girl realise that you are not hanging on her every word… that a call from her isn’t going to make your day… that you don’t give a frag.

• Once calls are made / voicemails left, don’t dwell on them… get on with something else. Occupy your mind with something else and just forget about it. You can’t change the voicemail you just left by thinking about it, so stop thinking about it. If you dwell on it, when she does call back, your conversation will convey to her that it bothered you... you are suddenly a needy nerd.

• Don’t ask them out the first call; focus on adding value and create a connection. Ask her our after you have spent some time and demonstrated some attractive qualities; she is much more likely to say yes and flaking will be dramatically reduced.

• Get talking about topics of a sexual nature as early on in the interaction as possible. This goes for phone game, MSN conversations and Day 2’s. Be the sexual guy; be the sexual ball of energy.

• Voice tone – As we all know, communication is only 7% words… 30 something percent is voice tone and the rest is body language; this is particularly important when you are using the phone. Let your tone of voice deliver the true meaning of the message you are trying to convey. Once you master this skill, you can say the most shocking and unpredictable things and they will be received with humour rather than anger.

• Mimic their voice. This can be used over the phone or in person. If the girl has an unusual or different accent or talks slowly or with unusual diction, impersonate her when you speak to her. Calibrate… Don’t just do it because I told you to do it; does she laugh when you are doing it… Is it pushing a few buttons (it should do because it’s cocky and that should create attraction)? Is she sh*t testing you? If she is, carry on. Is she getting genuinely pissed off with you for it? If she is, then don’t do it. Turkish, Spanish, Russian… mimic their accents throughout the call… it’s hilarious.

• You can create humour through repetition; I use this technique a lot. I will pick a saying or expression that a girl uses and I will use it repeatedly. It will be funny at first and then it will stop being funny; I will then keep using it and what you will find is that it actually becomes funny again. Better than that, it actually becomes hilarious.

For example, a girl I was recently seeing was foreign; her English wasn’t great and she constantly used the expression “I don’t know.” Every time she couldn’t think of a statement or comment, she would say “I don’t know.” I started to use this expression with her; same words and in the same accent. It started to get really funny and now whenever I call and speak with her, I use the same expression 10-20 times. I pushed through the point where it was not funny and it started getting funny again; now I reap the rewards. She has many “catchphrases” and many of our conversations consist of her trying to have a normal conversation and me simply parroting back her most recognisable lines.

Please note: If you do not understand this concept, and it doesn’t sit well with you, then just don’t use it. I assure you, like with all my material, it is field tested many times before, but if you don’t understand where I am coming from, this is something that may well have to be demonstrated for it to really sink in.

• One thing that I have been using to good effect with girl recently is when I get them sexual, I tell them that I bet they can’t resist me in bed. They always say… “Yes I can”… I would then say “OK… I bet you £50 that if you were in my bed and we were both in our underwear, you would not be able to resist me.” They of course accept the bet and then come and get into my bed. They never resist.

• Give girls nicknames. This should be done on the phone and in person. If one comes to you straight away, then use it and stick with it… Don’t worry about sh*t tests… Keep hammering her with it and it will stick. Every other guy is calling her Kate or Lucy or Carrie… DON’T BE EVERY OTHER GUY.

If a nickname doesn’t come to you straight away, then you should call them “Miss X” with the X being the first letter of their surname.

So you get the number of a girl names Helen Smith (and of course, she is saved in your phone as “Sexy Smith” (but that’s a different topic). When you call her, you will refer to her as “Miss S” – simple.

A quick case study:

You are calling her… Helen Smith: Hello?? You: Well hello Miss S… what are you up to today?

NEVER EVER CALL THEM BY THEIR FIRST NAME. Don’t just use the nickname once… hammer it into them every time you refer to them.

The more interesting girls will start giving you nicknames in return… accept them willingly… It’s a connection that you have with this girl that very few other guys in her life have.

• Give girls multiple nicknames. I met a girl who put her name in my phone as “Pink Jo Panther”. So immediately, she adopted a range of names: Pinky Pants, The Panth, Miss P etc etc…

• Swear at girls in a playful way… DON’T START BY CALLING THEM A you know female thingy. “Swearing escalation” is like kino escalation or sexual escalation. You need to start slowly and when they accept it, move forward. Keep your voice tone playful.. … Cow… Bitch… You bastard… you wanker… you frag head… you piece of sh*t… you you know female thingy. I am swearing at every girl I frag. It’s fun… it’s so offensive, it’s actually non- offensive and no other guys are swearing at them like that. Be the guy who is strong enough to do that sh*t and it will pay you rewards.

• Ask questions and listen to responses… fact find about them and listen for commonalities.

• Have conversations with other people when you are on the phone – it’s non-needy and demonstrates dominance – both of which are good qualities to demonstrate. It lets her know that you are not dropping everything to speak with her. She is no one special... It’s natural.

Eg: Chat chat chat…. “Hang on a sec… Westy… where the frag are my shoes?... Ok… so anyway…”

• ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS BE DOING SOMETHING WHEN YOU FIRST CALL THEM… The first call is often deemed the pressure call because if you mess things up, it could be game over. Doing something keeps the mind active and makes you less concerned about what she is saying and the manner in which she is saying it. Why do sales people pace when they are making a sales call… Don’t be sat in the corner of your bedroom with every word crushing your frame. Make a bed, sort some washing out, tidy your room, be driving somewhere. Just make sure that you are engaged in some activity.

I always tell them what I am doing as I am doing it – involve them in the experience. It just sounds more natural.

Her: blah blah Me: Hang on a second… OK… just take a left here and then it’s… hang on… well… where the bloody hell is Falmer Road??? What a nightmare. These multimaps are sh*t.

I have girls on the phone when I am brushing my teeth.

Me: I’m just doing my teeth… Keep talking… [brush brush brush] … keep talking.

I gargle down the phone and away we go.

You may think that you when you are doing something else, you can’t concentrate on what she’s saying. EXACTLY. The first few conversations should never really be too much about what she says. It should be about what you say and you conveying your value to her as that is what’s going to get her interested. Furthermore, as the calls go on, you are listening, but you are not hanging on her every word.

It’s a great frame to have as it is not needy; you are not dropping everything, hanging on her every word. You are merely involving her in your everyday life; it’s natural and it makes for natural conversation.

Mini Case Study: I buy food as I eat it; as a result, I am in Tescos every day. I always call girls when I am food shopping. I tell them what I am doing; I ask for their advice on what to cook. I chat in nonchalant “not that bothered” kind of fashion. I just involve them in my life and it really seems to work. There is never a dry spell in the interaction because I am constantly doing something. I can also demonstrate to a girl that I can cook; that sets me above quite a few guys right there .

• Call multiple girls in a row and leave the hottest one until last – you will develop good “chat” and you will reveal a good few talking points that you want to carry into the next conversation.

• Use call-back humour to get the humour flowing at the start of the call.

Eg “Who’s that???” It’s gay-boy.

• Do funny short little calls.

Eg… She picks up: “Do you love me today?” [then hang up] “What are you doing?” “I really want a blow job.” “Should I buy chicken or steak for dinner?”

It’s funny and it’s unpredictable and these are both attractive qualities.

• Try to do a lot of second date stuff on the phone. I regularly do all my day2 stuff on the phone, which means I am just meeting them for sex… More tips on why this is so good and how to do this later.

• If you been sexual with this girl in the past, remind her of what you have done. “I have kissed you.” “Let me remind you that you have gone down on me.” It’s cocky, it’s fun, it’s confident, no other guys do it and it reminds them how attractive they found you.

• For all you TMM junkies… a ROUTINE!!!!! When you are not so strong on the phone, have a go to story. (When you first call a girl) – This is a story that you can go to when the convo dries up. Interestingly enough, just having that story there should make you more relaxed and therefore reduce the chace of you actually needing it.

Stuff to say

Eg…. I saw something hilarious today… “a man fell over on the underground and his wig fell off… blah blah blah”…

See… watch how my method and TMM seamlessly integrates with each other.

• Never let a call go dead… the length of the call is not important… keeping it lively, fun and interesting is. If you feel it dying, get the frag off the line – NEVER ALLOW HER TO FINISH IT.

Always look to end calls… you end MSN conversations… You lead.

• Have phone sex with them if you can – Keep getting the conversation sexual; then move from there. Phone sex stuff… Often good to do when they are drunk…. If I was there now I would pin you down and press my chest against you…. I would get in between your legs wearing just my tight black Calvin Kleins and then I would grind down into you…. I would grab a hand full of your hair and pull it hard so that it was almost too painful…. I would kiss your neck deep and then move down to your tits… I would kiss all over your body… My strong hands would be all over your body.

Practice, practice, practice – You will not wake up tomorrow and just be a master at using the phone because you read my post on phone game. It may be hard for you at first, but you verbal skills will develop with dedication and practice using your phone.

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